I have finally got my new site up and running. It is not perfect yet, but it will get there. Please visit it at
Deserttwins.com
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Thursday, November 10, 2011
Tech Savvy?
I have never considered myself to be technically savvy, but I could do everything I needed to on a computer. I needed to use many programs throughout my schooling and never had issues. I recently decided to purchase my own domain and figured that I would be able to figure out how to set it up with a little reading.
Boy was I wrong. I purchased my domain and am still trying to figure out everything to get it up and running. I have spent every toddler-free moment in front of my laptop scratching my head. I didn't want to contact my hosting provider as I was feeling stubborn and didn't want to admit I couldn't figure it out. So, I enlisted the help of my husband and a friend. Both of them spent hours and didn't get much further than I did. Next I turned to my brother, Chris, who is a computer "god". After some fiddling with things C.hris got the software working and now I am just working on tweaking the appearance and importing posts.
Now that I have ripped out clumps of hair and spent countless hours feeling dumb, I have an almost running site. Updates to follow.
Boy was I wrong. I purchased my domain and am still trying to figure out everything to get it up and running. I have spent every toddler-free moment in front of my laptop scratching my head. I didn't want to contact my hosting provider as I was feeling stubborn and didn't want to admit I couldn't figure it out. So, I enlisted the help of my husband and a friend. Both of them spent hours and didn't get much further than I did. Next I turned to my brother, Chris, who is a computer "god". After some fiddling with things C.hris got the software working and now I am just working on tweaking the appearance and importing posts.
Now that I have ripped out clumps of hair and spent countless hours feeling dumb, I have an almost running site. Updates to follow.
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Chicken Fried
Everyone has a routine or item that calms them when they are stressed out. Chocolate, wine, running, and a good book are a few. For me, I love relaxing with a book and my mom turns to chocolate.
It seems that you are never too young to have a relaxer. I have recently noticed that whenever Nadia hears the song "Chicken Fried" by The Zac Brown Band she gets excited. She dances around and if she is in the car she head bangs. Nicole also seems to really like this song.
Today we had a long afternoon of lunch out with Grandma Judy and then shopping with Aunt Xiao Ping. While driving home Nicole was so worn out she couldn't stop crying. Luckily "Chicken Fried" came on the radio and she calmed right down. Nadia started dancing about in her carseat and within a minute Nicole was sound asleep.
Tonight the girls stayed up a bit late and were watching the CMA Awards. When The Zac Brown Band came on to sing "Georgia on my Mind" Nadia started dancing. It seems Nadia unwinds to The Zac Brown Band.
It seems that you are never too young to have a relaxer. I have recently noticed that whenever Nadia hears the song "Chicken Fried" by The Zac Brown Band she gets excited. She dances around and if she is in the car she head bangs. Nicole also seems to really like this song.
Today we had a long afternoon of lunch out with Grandma Judy and then shopping with Aunt Xiao Ping. While driving home Nicole was so worn out she couldn't stop crying. Luckily "Chicken Fried" came on the radio and she calmed right down. Nadia started dancing about in her carseat and within a minute Nicole was sound asleep.
Tonight the girls stayed up a bit late and were watching the CMA Awards. When The Zac Brown Band came on to sing "Georgia on my Mind" Nadia started dancing. It seems Nadia unwinds to The Zac Brown Band.
Temper tantrums -- positive reinforcement opportunity
There are many different ways of training dogs and just as many (if not more) to raising kids. I am always excited/pleased to find correlations between the two. When I was training dogs, I preferred the positive reinforcement method.
Positive reinforcement involves paying attention to positive behaviors while not paying attention to the negative behaviors. The thought process on this is even negative attention (telling child no, telling dog no etc) is still attention. Often dogs and kids will want attention and the easiest way (or only way) they know is to misbehave. Most bad behavior is caused by boredom and is attention seeking.
With dogs, the way to work with this method is to praise when the dog is doing something right and ignore the bad behavior. Teach the dog that the bad behavior will get him no attention. To stop the bad behavior, it is as easy as redirecting the behavior. You redirect the dog to do something you can praise him for. For example, if your dog barks when the doorbell rings, instead of telling him to stop, redirect to something you can praise (sitting, down, stay). This gives your dog a way to handle the situation and gives him a way to earn attention.
This same principle works with children also. If the only way your child knows to get your attention is to yell, they will. If it doesn't immediately work, they will escalate. This is how temper tantrums are made. The child learns if they yell loud enough and long enough they will get your attention or what they want because it has worked in the past. I can't even count how many times I have seen children in a store trying to get their Mom's attention and they only time she pays attention is when they yell or do another bad behavior.
This morning I read a report about a new way of dealing with temper tantrums. I was pleased that the method they suggest is the same method I use with my dogs and my children. Positive reinforcement really does work, although it is hard sometimes to ignore bad behaviors and redirect into positive ones.
Positive reinforcement involves paying attention to positive behaviors while not paying attention to the negative behaviors. The thought process on this is even negative attention (telling child no, telling dog no etc) is still attention. Often dogs and kids will want attention and the easiest way (or only way) they know is to misbehave. Most bad behavior is caused by boredom and is attention seeking.
With dogs, the way to work with this method is to praise when the dog is doing something right and ignore the bad behavior. Teach the dog that the bad behavior will get him no attention. To stop the bad behavior, it is as easy as redirecting the behavior. You redirect the dog to do something you can praise him for. For example, if your dog barks when the doorbell rings, instead of telling him to stop, redirect to something you can praise (sitting, down, stay). This gives your dog a way to handle the situation and gives him a way to earn attention.
This same principle works with children also. If the only way your child knows to get your attention is to yell, they will. If it doesn't immediately work, they will escalate. This is how temper tantrums are made. The child learns if they yell loud enough and long enough they will get your attention or what they want because it has worked in the past. I can't even count how many times I have seen children in a store trying to get their Mom's attention and they only time she pays attention is when they yell or do another bad behavior.
This morning I read a report about a new way of dealing with temper tantrums. I was pleased that the method they suggest is the same method I use with my dogs and my children. Positive reinforcement really does work, although it is hard sometimes to ignore bad behaviors and redirect into positive ones.
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Black Cat Lore
While taking my foster kittens in for their vaccinations last weekend, I noticed there was a large number of black cats available for adoption. I was reminded that black cats are extremely hard to adopt.
The reason for this is largely based in superstition. During the middle ages black cats were viewed as part demon and as witches familiars. This lead to people killing cats and not keeping cats as pets, which lead to an increase in the rat populations which carried the plague. This fear of black cats has carried over into todays society and folklore.
While some cultures believe there is luck to be found in black cats, most of the superstitions about them are negative. If a black cat crosses your path, it is supposed to be bad luck. Whether the cat walks towards or away from a person means either good or bad luck. Most people don't admit to believing that black cats are bad luck, there is a large percentage of black cats up for adoption.Black cats are notoriously hard to adopt. This may be due to superstitions or people just not liking the look of a solid colored cat.
Our family has one fantastic black cat, Puma. He came to us three years ago as a young foster kitten. He had been found in parking lot where his family had left him outside of a pet store. Originally he was to go up for adoption, however, he was such a great fit with our family we kept it. He walks on a leash and snuggles under the blankets at night. He is great with our daughters and dog. He is also a good daddy kitty to all the foster kittens that come through our house. He bathes all the babies and can almost always be found playing with them or napping with them.
Black cats are just as great as other colored cats and have no negative properties to them. They do not bring good or bad luck, and are not carriers of disease. Next time you are in the market for a kitty, don't skip over the loney black cats at the shelter/adoption facility. Often they are not as friendly because they have been there for so long they are depressed. They are great cats and deserve the same chance as all the fancy breeds.
The reason for this is largely based in superstition. During the middle ages black cats were viewed as part demon and as witches familiars. This lead to people killing cats and not keeping cats as pets, which lead to an increase in the rat populations which carried the plague. This fear of black cats has carried over into todays society and folklore.
While some cultures believe there is luck to be found in black cats, most of the superstitions about them are negative. If a black cat crosses your path, it is supposed to be bad luck. Whether the cat walks towards or away from a person means either good or bad luck. Most people don't admit to believing that black cats are bad luck, there is a large percentage of black cats up for adoption.Black cats are notoriously hard to adopt. This may be due to superstitions or people just not liking the look of a solid colored cat.
Our family has one fantastic black cat, Puma. He came to us three years ago as a young foster kitten. He had been found in parking lot where his family had left him outside of a pet store. Originally he was to go up for adoption, however, he was such a great fit with our family we kept it. He walks on a leash and snuggles under the blankets at night. He is great with our daughters and dog. He is also a good daddy kitty to all the foster kittens that come through our house. He bathes all the babies and can almost always be found playing with them or napping with them.Black cats are just as great as other colored cats and have no negative properties to them. They do not bring good or bad luck, and are not carriers of disease. Next time you are in the market for a kitty, don't skip over the loney black cats at the shelter/adoption facility. Often they are not as friendly because they have been there for so long they are depressed. They are great cats and deserve the same chance as all the fancy breeds.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Healthy Eating
Recently I have been reading a lot on ways to help your children live healthy lives. Everyone seems to have a suggestion on how to improve the way your children eat, play, learn, and live. There are all these tips floating around and it makes you wonder how people got all this information before the internet.
Before giving birth to my daughters, I was a dog trainer (a fairly good one I think). One of the questions I was asked a lot, besides how to I make my dog walk nicely, was how do I get my dog to eat the food I give him/her? I would always ask what they were feeding their dog and how they fed them. The answer was almost always the same. They always start off well enough giving their dog dry kibble, but when the dog didn't immediately gobble it down, they started doctoring it. Adding in wet food, human food, water and other tasty things. They also try heating the food. They say at first the dog ate the food but stopped after a few day. The answer is simple I tell them, your dog is holding out for something better. Why should he/she eat this if you will just give him something better if he/she waits. Stop doctoring your dog's food, feed them a good kibble, and wait for him to eat it. If he doesn't eat it when you put it down, try again at the next feeding time. Your dog will eat when hungry, he/she is just trying to hold out for something better.
I find that a lot of the techniques and tips I gave my doggie owners are things I am doing for my daughters now. Food however is the main thing I do differently. Children need to be able to control part of their lives and the easiest is their food. If parents make a huge ordeal out of eating certain things, the kids will not want to. If you tell a kid they have to eat their veggies, they can refuse. If you push the topic, they will always refuse. I feel the same about the clean your plate theory. I do not force my girls to clean their plate. If they are hungry, they will eat. If not, then they don't finish. If they are told to eat everything, it becomes a challenge which they have the control over.
My daughters eat almost everything that is put in front of them. They may not eat every last bite, but they do eat everything that we eat. I have had a few friends ask how we got them to be such good eaters. The only thing we can think of is we don't push food and we set a good example. Why would a kid want to eat cauliflower if their parents don't? Our girls are offered the exact same meal that Charles and I are eating (spicy or not). So far the only thing Nadia and Nicole do not like to eat is cucumber. Nadia LOVES cauliflower. She will throw away chicken nuggets, cheese, or anything else if you hand her a crown of cauliflower. She doesn't even want to dip it in anything. Nicole's favorite food is green beans. She also throws away other "kid favorite" foods for a green bean.
Before giving birth to my daughters, I was a dog trainer (a fairly good one I think). One of the questions I was asked a lot, besides how to I make my dog walk nicely, was how do I get my dog to eat the food I give him/her? I would always ask what they were feeding their dog and how they fed them. The answer was almost always the same. They always start off well enough giving their dog dry kibble, but when the dog didn't immediately gobble it down, they started doctoring it. Adding in wet food, human food, water and other tasty things. They also try heating the food. They say at first the dog ate the food but stopped after a few day. The answer is simple I tell them, your dog is holding out for something better. Why should he/she eat this if you will just give him something better if he/she waits. Stop doctoring your dog's food, feed them a good kibble, and wait for him to eat it. If he doesn't eat it when you put it down, try again at the next feeding time. Your dog will eat when hungry, he/she is just trying to hold out for something better.
I find that a lot of the techniques and tips I gave my doggie owners are things I am doing for my daughters now. Food however is the main thing I do differently. Children need to be able to control part of their lives and the easiest is their food. If parents make a huge ordeal out of eating certain things, the kids will not want to. If you tell a kid they have to eat their veggies, they can refuse. If you push the topic, they will always refuse. I feel the same about the clean your plate theory. I do not force my girls to clean their plate. If they are hungry, they will eat. If not, then they don't finish. If they are told to eat everything, it becomes a challenge which they have the control over.
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| Nicole eating spicy chili |
My daughters eat almost everything that is put in front of them. They may not eat every last bite, but they do eat everything that we eat. I have had a few friends ask how we got them to be such good eaters. The only thing we can think of is we don't push food and we set a good example. Why would a kid want to eat cauliflower if their parents don't? Our girls are offered the exact same meal that Charles and I are eating (spicy or not). So far the only thing Nadia and Nicole do not like to eat is cucumber. Nadia LOVES cauliflower. She will throw away chicken nuggets, cheese, or anything else if you hand her a crown of cauliflower. She doesn't even want to dip it in anything. Nicole's favorite food is green beans. She also throws away other "kid favorite" foods for a green bean.
Play Dates
I like to think that my daughters are good at sharing. Having a sibling constantly borrowing their toys helps ensure they are good at sharing. We work hard at keeping them good at this skill but recently have had to stop a few scuffles over toys. One way to help build sharing skills we have found is to bring other children over to play with their toys.
We had a play date last week with friend and fellow blogger Melissa and her daughters Mya (5yrs old) and Zoey ( 7 months old). We had dinner together then the girls all got to play. Mya was very interested in our foster kittens and even got to name one of them.
The girls all played very well together and there were no squabbles over toys. Nadia was so excited to have friends over she was bringing out toys to Mya and Zoey, although my house looked like a toy bomb exploded in it afterwards. While Charles watched the girls, Melissa and I went through Nadia and Nicole's closet to find hand me down clothes for Zoey. It is great to have a friend to pass on all the extra clothes to!
As Melissa was getting ready to leave, Zoey discovered Nicole's rocking duck. While she is still too small to make it rock, she enjoyed sitting on it and exploring its duck head.
Play dates are great for kids and parents. They give us Mommy's time to commiserate and have a chance to speak with a fellow adult. They also allow the kids to interact with other kids of different ages and to practice sharing.
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| Mya and kitten |
The girls all played very well together and there were no squabbles over toys. Nadia was so excited to have friends over she was bringing out toys to Mya and Zoey, although my house looked like a toy bomb exploded in it afterwards. While Charles watched the girls, Melissa and I went through Nadia and Nicole's closet to find hand me down clothes for Zoey. It is great to have a friend to pass on all the extra clothes to!
As Melissa was getting ready to leave, Zoey discovered Nicole's rocking duck. While she is still too small to make it rock, she enjoyed sitting on it and exploring its duck head. Play dates are great for kids and parents. They give us Mommy's time to commiserate and have a chance to speak with a fellow adult. They also allow the kids to interact with other kids of different ages and to practice sharing.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
More bad customer service
I had another horrible experience with employees at a store today. It is a large chain pet store and the location was one I had not been to before, and never will again. I needed to purchase two dozen crickets for my leopard and bibron's geckos and had promised my girls a new fish for their fish tank.
It was busy inside the store and I stood in the cricket area for 10 minutes without being helped. I was within sight of the cashiers and I know they saw me as we made eye contact. After ten minutes, I went to an office where I found three managers and a dog trainer chatting. I asked for assistance with crickets. A manager told me there were two people in that department. I informed them I had been waiting and no one was there. She rudely told me again there was two people over there. I demanded she help me.
After she angrily packaged my crickets, I went to look at the female betta fish. I was finally approached by an employee who did not ask if I need any help, he simply stated "Are you ok?" All of the fish were in filthy water that had chunky debris floating in it. It was obvious that the water hadn't been cleaned in a very long time. I am an avid fish keeper and generally would never buy a fish kept in the conditions these fish were in. As I was checking out with what appeared to be the most "healthy" fish, the cashier told me all the fish had come in a day or two before. It was very obvious this was not true.
I typically buy my crickets at another location of this store and don't have any problems. It just reminds me that it is not always the company that needs to work on its customer service. Sometimes a few bad people in a store are enough to ruin the whole experience. I can guarantee I will never go to this location again.
It was busy inside the store and I stood in the cricket area for 10 minutes without being helped. I was within sight of the cashiers and I know they saw me as we made eye contact. After ten minutes, I went to an office where I found three managers and a dog trainer chatting. I asked for assistance with crickets. A manager told me there were two people in that department. I informed them I had been waiting and no one was there. She rudely told me again there was two people over there. I demanded she help me.
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| One of our plecos |
I typically buy my crickets at another location of this store and don't have any problems. It just reminds me that it is not always the company that needs to work on its customer service. Sometimes a few bad people in a store are enough to ruin the whole experience. I can guarantee I will never go to this location again.
Vaccinations
Nadia and Nicole seem to be overly aware of what is happening in their lives. Starting around the age of 8 months they became fearful of going to the doctor. They are terrified of vaccinations. Nicole refuses to walk into the doctors office. She is fine going to other doctors, just not her pediatrician. Nadia will walk in but starts crying when we go back to the room.
We have been trying to think of ways to lessen the fear of vaccinations. They have seen me receive cortisone injections and seen Charles and I receive our flu shots. While this seems to help a little, we are still searching for other ways to calm their fears.
Today they got to witness our foster kittens receiving vaccinations. The kittens needed their distemper boosters and Nadia and Nicole went along.
The kittens slept the entire ride and were very calm. The kittens received a nose drop instead of an injection. Even with having drops put in their noses, the kittens were calm and didn't go on the attack. Afterwards they slept the drive home and are still asleep in their carrier.
I think it was good for Nadia and Nicole to see other species being calm about vaccinations, even if they are different from the needles they are used to. It also lets them know that they are not being singled out for this "torture" and it happens to everyone and every animal.
Maybe the vaccine researchers can find a way to make vaccines into a nose drop for the youngsters.
We have been trying to think of ways to lessen the fear of vaccinations. They have seen me receive cortisone injections and seen Charles and I receive our flu shots. While this seems to help a little, we are still searching for other ways to calm their fears.
The kittens slept the entire ride and were very calm. The kittens received a nose drop instead of an injection. Even with having drops put in their noses, the kittens were calm and didn't go on the attack. Afterwards they slept the drive home and are still asleep in their carrier.
I think it was good for Nadia and Nicole to see other species being calm about vaccinations, even if they are different from the needles they are used to. It also lets them know that they are not being singled out for this "torture" and it happens to everyone and every animal.
Maybe the vaccine researchers can find a way to make vaccines into a nose drop for the youngsters.
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Saving Money
Raising twins is an expensive adventure. Food, diapers, supplies and clothes cost way more than Charles and I had planned on when we got pregnant. This has forced us to tighten our belts and learn how to get the items we need for less.
Food is by far the biggest expense. I have learned that I save money by not shopping in the center aisles of the grocery store. There are a few items I still venture into the depths of the store for, but mostly I stick to the outer perimeter. It may seem counter productive, however, when you eat healthy foods low in carbs, your body doesn't feel so hungry. Our diet contains mostly produce and meat. We spent about $350 a month on food before we had our daughters, and now we spend about $200. We have also stopped going out to eat as much. We are foodies so this was a hard thing for us.
I have also become the queen of clearance shopping. I have to really really need a product to buy it at full price. I don't use coupons very often because most of them are for things that I would not normally buy, therefor save me no money.
When I go clothes shopping I never go out looking for one thing in particular. I peruse the clearance racks and see if there is anything that I need. While I was still pregnant a fellow mother of twins gave me the best advice; she said, if it is something you will need and it's clearanced, buy it. This is my mantra. Today I bought two pairs of fleece pajamas for my daughters for $7.00. They are size 5T, so it will be a few years til they can wear them, but I have ample storage space. I saved a little over 50% on these pajamas. I purchased Charles a pair of jeans a few weeks ago that were clearanced for $10.86, however, I had a $10 off coupon and a 20% friends and family coupon so the jeans ended up costing $0.84. The deals are out there if you spend the time to look for them.
Food is by far the biggest expense. I have learned that I save money by not shopping in the center aisles of the grocery store. There are a few items I still venture into the depths of the store for, but mostly I stick to the outer perimeter. It may seem counter productive, however, when you eat healthy foods low in carbs, your body doesn't feel so hungry. Our diet contains mostly produce and meat. We spent about $350 a month on food before we had our daughters, and now we spend about $200. We have also stopped going out to eat as much. We are foodies so this was a hard thing for us.
I have also become the queen of clearance shopping. I have to really really need a product to buy it at full price. I don't use coupons very often because most of them are for things that I would not normally buy, therefor save me no money.
When I go clothes shopping I never go out looking for one thing in particular. I peruse the clearance racks and see if there is anything that I need. While I was still pregnant a fellow mother of twins gave me the best advice; she said, if it is something you will need and it's clearanced, buy it. This is my mantra. Today I bought two pairs of fleece pajamas for my daughters for $7.00. They are size 5T, so it will be a few years til they can wear them, but I have ample storage space. I saved a little over 50% on these pajamas. I purchased Charles a pair of jeans a few weeks ago that were clearanced for $10.86, however, I had a $10 off coupon and a 20% friends and family coupon so the jeans ended up costing $0.84. The deals are out there if you spend the time to look for them.
Friday, November 4, 2011
Cold Pills
Recently our family has been hit by a nasty cold. Everyone became a victim of it, including Grandma Judy. Body aches, runny nose and general malaise were the common symptom. Most of us recovered within a few days, some of us are not quite over it yet. The worst hit was Grandma Judy.
Nadia and Nicole both had runny noses and body aches. VapoRub and a humidifier soothed their symptoms and helped them sleep. Us grown ups relied on cold pills and nyquil to ease our aches and pains. After a week of getting continually worse, Grandma Judy saw her doctor. She was told she had a sinus infection and was given antibiotics. Her doctor also told her that cold pills can actually increase your chances of infection.
This got me thinking, if I am unwilling to give my children these medications, why are my family and I taking them. These medications do not cure the cold, they only mask the symptoms. Runny noses happen to help flush your body of the virus. If your body is unable to remove the virus in its normal manner, the virus sits around and festers and can cause a secondary infection.
Our society has become so dependent of medications to fix everything and these medications are breeding superbugs and increasing our dependency on them. When we were young, saline solution was a fantastic fix for congestion. As adults, we take medication that is also used to make methamphetamines. This makes no sense to me.
While there are times when medications make sense (if you have to function for work or childcare), usually you do not need these medicines. Allowing your body to fight off the virus on its own will increase your immune system. If the cold gets worse, it is best to see your doctor for antibiotics, but give your body a chance to fight it off first.
Nadia and Nicole both had runny noses and body aches. VapoRub and a humidifier soothed their symptoms and helped them sleep. Us grown ups relied on cold pills and nyquil to ease our aches and pains. After a week of getting continually worse, Grandma Judy saw her doctor. She was told she had a sinus infection and was given antibiotics. Her doctor also told her that cold pills can actually increase your chances of infection.
This got me thinking, if I am unwilling to give my children these medications, why are my family and I taking them. These medications do not cure the cold, they only mask the symptoms. Runny noses happen to help flush your body of the virus. If your body is unable to remove the virus in its normal manner, the virus sits around and festers and can cause a secondary infection.
Our society has become so dependent of medications to fix everything and these medications are breeding superbugs and increasing our dependency on them. When we were young, saline solution was a fantastic fix for congestion. As adults, we take medication that is also used to make methamphetamines. This makes no sense to me.
While there are times when medications make sense (if you have to function for work or childcare), usually you do not need these medicines. Allowing your body to fight off the virus on its own will increase your immune system. If the cold gets worse, it is best to see your doctor for antibiotics, but give your body a chance to fight it off first.
Thursday, November 3, 2011
What's happened to customer service?
Nadia had a doctor appointment with an children's orthopedist yesterday. She has been walking on her toes for a few months and her pediatrician referred her just as a precaution. She had already seen a neurologist to rule out possible cerebral palsy. The orthopedist seemed extremely busy/rushed, saw us an hour after our appointment time, and didn't even introduce himself to myself or Nadia. He spoke very gruffly to me and never spoke to Nadia. All in all he acted like I was wasting his time.
I realize that doctors have a lot on their books and tend to have emergencies that force them to run late. I am not one of those people who get angry for waiting five minutes past my appointment. What does anger me is being treated as a burden when I am a paying customer and being forced to wait an extremely long time with no explanation.
I have worked in the retail world before and have seen all kinds of angry customers that my job required me to be polite and smiley to. Why is it that some doctors and other professionals have got out of the habit of providing exceptional customer service? Many people won't return to a store they have had a bad encounter with an employee but are willing to continue to see a healthcare provider who is always late and rude. There are many choices for a doctor, yet some doctors feel they are entitled to be rude.
I expect good customer service from any place I pay for a service. I am more than willing to pay higher prices to receive a good experience. I drive 40 minutes for my children's pediatrician and even further for my veterinarian. This doesn't stop for me with healthcare, I also choose where to grocery shop, clothes shop, pet food shop and home product shop based on the experiences I have had with employees and the reactions and actions of management.
I feel it is time that our society works their way back to good customer service and bedside manner. We all deserve to be treated well and shown our business is appreciated.
I realize that doctors have a lot on their books and tend to have emergencies that force them to run late. I am not one of those people who get angry for waiting five minutes past my appointment. What does anger me is being treated as a burden when I am a paying customer and being forced to wait an extremely long time with no explanation.
I have worked in the retail world before and have seen all kinds of angry customers that my job required me to be polite and smiley to. Why is it that some doctors and other professionals have got out of the habit of providing exceptional customer service? Many people won't return to a store they have had a bad encounter with an employee but are willing to continue to see a healthcare provider who is always late and rude. There are many choices for a doctor, yet some doctors feel they are entitled to be rude.
I expect good customer service from any place I pay for a service. I am more than willing to pay higher prices to receive a good experience. I drive 40 minutes for my children's pediatrician and even further for my veterinarian. This doesn't stop for me with healthcare, I also choose where to grocery shop, clothes shop, pet food shop and home product shop based on the experiences I have had with employees and the reactions and actions of management.
I feel it is time that our society works their way back to good customer service and bedside manner. We all deserve to be treated well and shown our business is appreciated.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Learning new words
Watching my daughters grow has been the greatest joy of my life. Seeing them smile for the first time took my breath away. Everyday they learn something new and the world is fascinating to them. Recently they learned how to drink out of big girl cups and now refuse to drink from sippy or straw cups.
They have been talking for awhile now. Nadia believes food is fish. When she is hungry she says fish and points to the pantry. Nicole has picked up on this and calls food fish also. They have been saying mom and dad since they were about 10 months old.
Nicole learned two things today. She has loved giving adults hugs and often greets Grandparents and Dad with a huge hug when she sees them. Today though she has discovered she can also give her sister hugs. She spent quite a lot of time following Nadia around today giving her hugs. Nadia didn't seem too impressed.
The other thing Nicole learned today was to tell us no. She isn't terrible about it, yet. She started telling us no if she doesn't want the "fish" we offered, or no to are you ready for bed. During bathtime tonight Charles asked her if she could say Daddy and she said no. After bathtime he asked her again if she could say Daddy and she told him no again.
They have been talking for awhile now. Nadia believes food is fish. When she is hungry she says fish and points to the pantry. Nicole has picked up on this and calls food fish also. They have been saying mom and dad since they were about 10 months old.
Nicole learned two things today. She has loved giving adults hugs and often greets Grandparents and Dad with a huge hug when she sees them. Today though she has discovered she can also give her sister hugs. She spent quite a lot of time following Nadia around today giving her hugs. Nadia didn't seem too impressed.
The other thing Nicole learned today was to tell us no. She isn't terrible about it, yet. She started telling us no if she doesn't want the "fish" we offered, or no to are you ready for bed. During bathtime tonight Charles asked her if she could say Daddy and she said no. After bathtime he asked her again if she could say Daddy and she told him no again.
Scary truth of Pet Food
Today the news is reporting on chemicals in Johnson and Johnson baby shampoo that are possible carcinogens. MSNBC story This does worry me and makes me happy that I pay more for natural soaps and shampoos for my children. It also makes me think of the things that are added to animal food that have been long ago been deemed unsafe.
The majority of animal foods found in supermarkets, discount stores, and large chain pet food stores contain ingredients that shouldn't be considered food or are so filled with fillers you end up feeding your animal huge quantities to get the nutrition they need.
Most pet food contains corn. Animals do not digest corn and it is used as a filler. All foods containing corn require you to feed large quantities as most of the food is corn. Our rottweiler, Atrus, was on a corn free diet and ate 4 cups of food a day, he weighed 140 pounds. Corn based foods suggested feeding him over 12 cups a day.
Another ingredient often found in pet foods are by-products, which are heads, feet, bones, blood, intestines, lungs, spleens, livers, ligaments, fat trimmings, unborn babies, and other parts not generally consumed by humans. If they only state meat by-products, you have no idea what type of animal these parts are coming from.
The dry kibble is so unpalatable, companies spray it with fat to entice the animals to eat them. Then the problem of the fat spoiling comes into play. To deal with this, most companies mix in BHA and BHT as preservatives. These are known carcinogens.
Healthy pet foods do exist, but they are not found at chain stores. Do research on your pets food and read the ingredients. You will be surprise what you find. These healthy foods do cost a bit more up front, however, in the long run you feed less. It can also help your pet live longer.
For further information:
Bornfreeusa
Natural News
The majority of animal foods found in supermarkets, discount stores, and large chain pet food stores contain ingredients that shouldn't be considered food or are so filled with fillers you end up feeding your animal huge quantities to get the nutrition they need.
Most pet food contains corn. Animals do not digest corn and it is used as a filler. All foods containing corn require you to feed large quantities as most of the food is corn. Our rottweiler, Atrus, was on a corn free diet and ate 4 cups of food a day, he weighed 140 pounds. Corn based foods suggested feeding him over 12 cups a day.
Another ingredient often found in pet foods are by-products, which are heads, feet, bones, blood, intestines, lungs, spleens, livers, ligaments, fat trimmings, unborn babies, and other parts not generally consumed by humans. If they only state meat by-products, you have no idea what type of animal these parts are coming from.
The dry kibble is so unpalatable, companies spray it with fat to entice the animals to eat them. Then the problem of the fat spoiling comes into play. To deal with this, most companies mix in BHA and BHT as preservatives. These are known carcinogens.
Healthy pet foods do exist, but they are not found at chain stores. Do research on your pets food and read the ingredients. You will be surprise what you find. These healthy foods do cost a bit more up front, however, in the long run you feed less. It can also help your pet live longer.
For further information:
Bornfreeusa
Natural News
Halloween
As I have said before, I have never been a huge fan of holidays. This is the first holiday season my daughters are old enough to enjoy. Nicole really enjoys holiday lights but gets a little nervous around all the "scary" decorations. Nadia is bomb proof and thinks the decorations are great fun.
Last night they had their first adventure in Trick or Treating. We first visited a friend early in the afternoon to ease them into ringing doorbells for candy. At first they both were hesitant but got the hang of it when candy made its appearance. We visited our friend for awhile then headed to my Mom's neighborhood.
They may have learned a bad lesson when they rang Grandma's doorbell and she gave them candy. I hope they don't think this will happen every time we visit Grandma. We spend time visiting with Grandma and a few of her neighbors.
Nadia dressed as a parrot, her costume took a little getting used to as she dislikes things on her head. Once she discovered everyone thought she was super cute she consented to the hat.
Nicole originally was going to be a cow but she decided that her costume was not ok. She was then made into a kitty which she approved of. Nicole LOVES cats and starts every day with hugging at least one of her kitties.
Both girls had a lot of fun, but were worn out afterwards. I am glad we did the trick or treating early though as it got crowded in our neighborhood as the night wore on. I was surprised how many older (teenage) kids were trick or treating. I saw many high school age kids asking for candy, one even asked for money.
They may have learned a bad lesson when they rang Grandma's doorbell and she gave them candy. I hope they don't think this will happen every time we visit Grandma. We spend time visiting with Grandma and a few of her neighbors.
Both girls had a lot of fun, but were worn out afterwards. I am glad we did the trick or treating early though as it got crowded in our neighborhood as the night wore on. I was surprised how many older (teenage) kids were trick or treating. I saw many high school age kids asking for candy, one even asked for money.
Monday, October 31, 2011
Helping Animal Rescues
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| Aunt Xiao Ping and kittens |
In four weeks our batch of kittens will be old enough to be spayed/neutered and find homes of their own. They will go to the vet to have their surgery, recover, then Homeward Bound will place them for adoption.
While not everyone can spare the time or space to foster kittens, there is a lot anyone can do. Every shelter, vet hospital, and rescue can always use donations. Old sheets, towels, blankets, and linens are always welcomed to give homeless animals a soft place to lay. Pillowy items can only be used once as they cannot be sanitized. Monetary donations are always welcomed as well. A friend and fellow blogger, Mindy, has an interesting way of donating to rescues. She is a wonderful artist and donates paintings and drawings to be auctioned or sold for money.
Rescue groups always need help. There is never enough people assisting them. Anything anyone can give is appreciated. Next time you have linens or old towels, consider donating them to a rescue instead of throwing them away.
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Block Party
There seems to be a trend of neighbors distancing themselves from their neighbors. I have lived in my house for a year and have met my neighbor once when our sprinkler system was malfunctioning. At our prior residence we spoke to our neighbor once in three years when we accidentally received her mail. This seems to be the norm in most of the places I have lived.
My Mother moved to a house two years ago and her new neighbors, all of them on her block, are different than any I have ever lived near. They are all on very friendly terms, speak at least every week, and have their dogs play in large groups together. They gather to watch fights and tv shows and think nothing of helping each other with things. As they live on a dead end street, it is a perfect place to have block parties, which they frequently do.
Saturday they had their annual Halloween block party. It started early for the youngsters, but continued well into the morning. There was marshmallow roasting over a raised fire pit, hot chocolate bar for the kiddies, slow roast pork sandwiches to die for, and drinks for the above 21 crowd. I was amazed when a 6 year old boy offered to roast marshmallows for my daughters.
Maybe it is just Las Vegas, however, it seems our society has lost its neighborly ways. You rarely see neighborhood parties or barbeques. Many neighbors don't know who their neighbors are or even how many people live next to them. The block party was such a wonderful experience for my girls and I, I think I will try to become friends with my neighbors also.
My Mother moved to a house two years ago and her new neighbors, all of them on her block, are different than any I have ever lived near. They are all on very friendly terms, speak at least every week, and have their dogs play in large groups together. They gather to watch fights and tv shows and think nothing of helping each other with things. As they live on a dead end street, it is a perfect place to have block parties, which they frequently do.
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| Nicole (left) and Nadia (right) with Grandma Judy |
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| Nadia and neighbor Liz |
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Game Time
Nadia and Nicole have always been drawn to electronics. Nicole had learned to turn the tv on by the time she was a year old. Her favorite toys are have buttons and lights. Nadia loves anything that makes loud noises. They pretend to talk on the phone and play games on our smartphones.
They have always wanted to play on the computer. We have been hesitant about letting them do this but recently decided to give them an old laptop to play with. I hunted for for a game made for 18 month olds, but was surprised there weren't very many. I decided to give a Disney game made for 18 month to 3 year olds a shot. Disney Toddler Game
The game is fairly simple and teaches letters, numbers, colors, and shapes. All the girls need to do is mouse-over certain objects. Disney characters provide lots of positive reinforcement and encouragement. After a short play period Nicole was associating moving the mouse with what happens on the screen.
The girls love having a game to play on their computer and I love not having to tell them to stay away from my computer so often. They have not mastered the games yet, but I'm sure with a little more practice they will soon be surfing the web like big girls.
They have always wanted to play on the computer. We have been hesitant about letting them do this but recently decided to give them an old laptop to play with. I hunted for for a game made for 18 month olds, but was surprised there weren't very many. I decided to give a Disney game made for 18 month to 3 year olds a shot. Disney Toddler Game
The girls love having a game to play on their computer and I love not having to tell them to stay away from my computer so often. They have not mastered the games yet, but I'm sure with a little more practice they will soon be surfing the web like big girls.
Friday, October 28, 2011
Rough Week
When I venture out with my kids, I am often stopped by people to ask questions about my girls. By far the most common question is "are they twins?" The second question I hear a lot is "Are twins more work than a single child?"
Of course twins are more work, however, I have never had a single child so I don't know the differences. I have stayed home with them since they were born, and aside from the brief times where one girls stays at a grandparents house, I always have both of them. Day to day life has become routine and easier.
When they were young and not sleeping through the night, life was hectic. Looking back I barely remember the first few months of their lives, I just remember being exhausted. Life is still hectic, but in a different way.
The girls are fantastic about most things. They can almost dress themselves, they pick out their own food, and clean up after themselves. Usually they love playing with each other, there are days when they don't want to be around each other though. I have set strict boundaries about what is allowed and what isn't, and both girls follow the rules most of the time.
Now that they are 19 months old, the most hectic part of life has become trying to find time for everything they want to do and everything I want them to do. I find it hard to spend one on one time with either girl. We try to work experiences into everyday activities and playing.
This last week has been tough on our family. I was sick most of the week which left Charles completely in charge. He has always downplayed how much work raising twins is and how stressful it can be. When I got better, my mom told me Charles called her to tell her he didn't know how I do it every day.
The answer is yes, raising twins is harder than a single child, but it gives twice the joy.
Of course twins are more work, however, I have never had a single child so I don't know the differences. I have stayed home with them since they were born, and aside from the brief times where one girls stays at a grandparents house, I always have both of them. Day to day life has become routine and easier.
When they were young and not sleeping through the night, life was hectic. Looking back I barely remember the first few months of their lives, I just remember being exhausted. Life is still hectic, but in a different way.
The girls are fantastic about most things. They can almost dress themselves, they pick out their own food, and clean up after themselves. Usually they love playing with each other, there are days when they don't want to be around each other though. I have set strict boundaries about what is allowed and what isn't, and both girls follow the rules most of the time.
Now that they are 19 months old, the most hectic part of life has become trying to find time for everything they want to do and everything I want them to do. I find it hard to spend one on one time with either girl. We try to work experiences into everyday activities and playing.
This last week has been tough on our family. I was sick most of the week which left Charles completely in charge. He has always downplayed how much work raising twins is and how stressful it can be. When I got better, my mom told me Charles called her to tell her he didn't know how I do it every day.
The answer is yes, raising twins is harder than a single child, but it gives twice the joy.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Phoenix Zoo Adventure
Growing up in the Seattle/Tacoma area, I was surrounded by fantastic zoos and animal parks. Woodland Park Zoo, Point Defiance Zoo and Aquarium, and Northwest Trek helped shape my love of animals. I had always hoped to take my children to the zoo at least once a month and instill a love of animals in them also.
Unfortunately Las Vegas does not have a modern zoo. I have been hesitant to take my children to the Las Vegas Zoo after seeing pictures of the facilities. Whenever we travel to a city with a modern zoo, I make a point of making a trip to the zoo. While in Phoenix over the weekend, we made a trip to the Phoenix Zoo.
Letting kids experience animals that they would not normally see gives them a respect for the world around them. The girls were thrilled with seeing the animals in real life instead of just in pictures. We were lucky enough to have an old friend who works at the zoo that allowed Nadia and Nicole to meet the giant tortoises.
Experiences like these will surely stick with them into adulthood, even if they don't remember it happening.
Unfortunately Las Vegas does not have a modern zoo. I have been hesitant to take my children to the Las Vegas Zoo after seeing pictures of the facilities. Whenever we travel to a city with a modern zoo, I make a point of making a trip to the zoo. While in Phoenix over the weekend, we made a trip to the Phoenix Zoo.
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| Nadia and aldabra tortoise |
Experiences like these will surely stick with them into adulthood, even if they don't remember it happening.
Twins!
There are certain moments that stay in your memory. Everyone knows where they were when they heard Kennedy was assassinated or when the terrorists attacked the World Trade Center. You never forget your first love or your wedding day.
Today is one of those days for me. Two years ago today I had my first ultrasound. I was 13 weeks pregnant and had been anxiously awaiting seeing my child for the first time. My great friend Christy was visiting from New Jersey and attended the ultrasound with Charles and I. The ultrasound started simply enough, but within minutes I heard words that changed my life.
The ultrasound tech looked around with the scanner for a moment, then removed it and said "I have big news". Something inside had already told me I was having twins, my Grandma actually told people before the ultrasound that I was having twins. I asked the tech if there was more than one baby, and she said there are two.
Christy later told me that Charles cried when he heard. These are the first pictures of my darling girls.
Today is one of those days for me. Two years ago today I had my first ultrasound. I was 13 weeks pregnant and had been anxiously awaiting seeing my child for the first time. My great friend Christy was visiting from New Jersey and attended the ultrasound with Charles and I. The ultrasound started simply enough, but within minutes I heard words that changed my life.
The ultrasound tech looked around with the scanner for a moment, then removed it and said "I have big news". Something inside had already told me I was having twins, my Grandma actually told people before the ultrasound that I was having twins. I asked the tech if there was more than one baby, and she said there are two.
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| Nadia on left, Nicole on right |
Christy later told me that Charles cried when he heard. These are the first pictures of my darling girls.
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| Nicole |
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| Nadia |
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Purebred Animal Rescue
Before I had Nadia and Nicole, I worked at a retail pet store that did not sell animals. Often we had customers coming in looking for cats and dogs. As a big supporter of animal rescue, I always suggest rescues first. Many people would state they wanted a purebred animals so they would go to a puppy store.
The majority of puppy stores get their animals from puppy mills. Puppy mills are in the business for money and the conditions are deplorable. Besides being extremely expensive, most animals from mills are sickly, malnourished, and poorly bred. Many of the animals have chronic health conditions and do not live long lives.
All of our animals have been rescues, coming from shelters and local adoption agencies. A few of them have also been purebreds. Petfinder is a search engine for adoption agencies. You can search by breed, age, area or gender. For those looking for a specific breed this is a great way to find local adoptable animals.
The ASPCA is another great resource for locating adoptable animals. Each state has its own chapter of the society for the prevention of cruelty to animals.
Most breeds also have breed specific rescues. With a little hard work and patience, it is very possible to find purebred animals looking for a home.
Besides saving an animal's life by adopting, adoption is also cheaper than pet stores. Most adoption agencies charge small fees (under $200 for dogs, around $100 for cats) for their animals. These animals have already been spayed/neutered, had their shots, and often come with a free vet visit. So next time you are looking for an animals, think adoption first.
The majority of puppy stores get their animals from puppy mills. Puppy mills are in the business for money and the conditions are deplorable. Besides being extremely expensive, most animals from mills are sickly, malnourished, and poorly bred. Many of the animals have chronic health conditions and do not live long lives.
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| Fiona, purebred White Persian |
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| Jazz on left, Atrus (ours) on right, purebred Rottweiler |
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| Mr. Jinx, Blue Point Himalayan |
The ASPCA is another great resource for locating adoptable animals. Each state has its own chapter of the society for the prevention of cruelty to animals.
Most breeds also have breed specific rescues. With a little hard work and patience, it is very possible to find purebred animals looking for a home.
Besides saving an animal's life by adopting, adoption is also cheaper than pet stores. Most adoption agencies charge small fees (under $200 for dogs, around $100 for cats) for their animals. These animals have already been spayed/neutered, had their shots, and often come with a free vet visit. So next time you are looking for an animals, think adoption first.
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Nalley Chili
One of my all time favorite foods is chili. My Grandpa made the best chili I have ever had. I have his recipe but I can't make it quite as great as his. In a pinch I love a good canned chili. Growing up in Washington I took Nalley Chili for granted.
When we moved to Las Vegas in 2007 I was shocked when I went to the grocery store and there was no Nalley Chili. I tried many different brands but none could stand up to Nalleys. On the few trips to Seattle I have made in the past couple years I have always bought a few cans of Nalley Chili.
Our friends in Phoenix are also from the Seattle/Tacoma area and recently returned from Washington. They also are Nalley Chili fanatics and were upset to find no Nalley Chili in Arizona. They brought back a few cans of chili with them and today for lunch we will be having wonderful Nalley Chili Dogs.
Our friends in Phoenix are also from the Seattle/Tacoma area and recently returned from Washington. They also are Nalley Chili fanatics and were upset to find no Nalley Chili in Arizona. They brought back a few cans of chili with them and today for lunch we will be having wonderful Nalley Chili Dogs.
Friday, October 21, 2011
Phoenix or Bust
When Nadia and Nicole were a few months old, we took two trips to Seattle to visit family. They were driving trips and we didn't stay very long. Charles had used most of his vacation while the girls were still in the NICU.
Today we are loading up the van with all the trappings 19 month old twins need to survive a weekend away from home and setting out to Phoenix. We have old family friends who live there and we are taking a much needed vacation. There are plans to visit a pumpkin patch, go to the zoo, and smoke an amazing pork roast
The thought of two young children strapped in car seats for a 6 hour drive is bad enough, but we are also on the verge of a potty training breakthrough (Nadia used the potty on her own yesterday). There will be many pit stops, lots of crying (Mom and daughters I am sure), but a great time. Wish us luck and thank you to my friend for staying at our house to care for all of our assorted animals.
Today we are loading up the van with all the trappings 19 month old twins need to survive a weekend away from home and setting out to Phoenix. We have old family friends who live there and we are taking a much needed vacation. There are plans to visit a pumpkin patch, go to the zoo, and smoke an amazing pork roast
The thought of two young children strapped in car seats for a 6 hour drive is bad enough, but we are also on the verge of a potty training breakthrough (Nadia used the potty on her own yesterday). There will be many pit stops, lots of crying (Mom and daughters I am sure), but a great time. Wish us luck and thank you to my friend for staying at our house to care for all of our assorted animals.
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Good Day
Some days it is hard to tell if my daughters like each other. They fight over toys, fight over me, fight over Dad. It seems I am constantly telling them to be nice, don't hit, and to share the toys. These days make me wonder if all twins dislike each other.
Then a day like today comes along and I am reminded that no matter how crabby they have been to each other, my girls really do love the other twin.
This morning Nadia was placed in time out for repeatedly climbing into the dishwasher, yes into it. When Nadia was placed in time out, Nicole decided to sit quietly next to Nadia. Every time we tried to distract Nicole away, she went right back to Nadia. We gave up and let Nicole sit in time out with Nadia. For the whole day, any time one of them cried the other one went to check on them.
There were still a few skirmishes between the two, but not nearly as many as usual. When it was time to get ready for bed, we told the girls it was time to pick up their toys. Nadia rushed over and started putting toys away. Nicole was sad that it was bed time and sat to cry. After some consoling we asked her if she wanted to put her blocks away. She got up and put one in the toy box. Nadia started clapping.
Then a day like today comes along and I am reminded that no matter how crabby they have been to each other, my girls really do love the other twin.
This morning Nadia was placed in time out for repeatedly climbing into the dishwasher, yes into it. When Nadia was placed in time out, Nicole decided to sit quietly next to Nadia. Every time we tried to distract Nicole away, she went right back to Nadia. We gave up and let Nicole sit in time out with Nadia. For the whole day, any time one of them cried the other one went to check on them.
There were still a few skirmishes between the two, but not nearly as many as usual. When it was time to get ready for bed, we told the girls it was time to pick up their toys. Nadia rushed over and started putting toys away. Nicole was sad that it was bed time and sat to cry. After some consoling we asked her if she wanted to put her blocks away. She got up and put one in the toy box. Nadia started clapping.
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Waffles
Raising twins on a single income takes some creativity. I am always looking for ways to save money and time. One of our largest expenses is food. I am always happy when I can find a way to save both money and time on food.
Mornings are always semirushed in my house. Nadia and Nicole are hungry when they wake up and I dislike giving them cereal all the time. We purchase a 10 pound bag of pancake mix for under $8.00 at the warehouse store. The bag makes 80 servings.
We pre-make waffles when we have free time and freeze them. When it is time to feed the girls, we stick their waffles in the toaster. To make the waffles a little healthier, we mix in quick oats for insoluble fiber and either grated carrots or zucchini for some veggies into the batter. We have also considered adding in grated sweet potatoes patted dry, but have not done this yet. We do not use syrup in the house to cut back on refined sugar.
The other trick is to keep the waffles interesting. There are many things you can add to the batter to liven things up. I typically add vanilla extract, cinnamon, or other yummy flavors. We have tried powdered chai mix and cardamon. I also add water based food colorings to make them more fun. Charles loves to take his waffles and use them to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich that he eats on his way to work.
Depending on what you add into the waffles, they come to about $0.09 per serving.
Mornings are always semirushed in my house. Nadia and Nicole are hungry when they wake up and I dislike giving them cereal all the time. We purchase a 10 pound bag of pancake mix for under $8.00 at the warehouse store. The bag makes 80 servings.We pre-make waffles when we have free time and freeze them. When it is time to feed the girls, we stick their waffles in the toaster. To make the waffles a little healthier, we mix in quick oats for insoluble fiber and either grated carrots or zucchini for some veggies into the batter. We have also considered adding in grated sweet potatoes patted dry, but have not done this yet. We do not use syrup in the house to cut back on refined sugar.
The other trick is to keep the waffles interesting. There are many things you can add to the batter to liven things up. I typically add vanilla extract, cinnamon, or other yummy flavors. We have tried powdered chai mix and cardamon. I also add water based food colorings to make them more fun. Charles loves to take his waffles and use them to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich that he eats on his way to work.Depending on what you add into the waffles, they come to about $0.09 per serving.
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Crib Bumpers
While I was pregnant, I read every book about babies and baby care I could get my hands on. As a first time mother I was very safety conscience and worried a lot. We put locks on all the drawers and as an extra precaution placed all the cleaners way out of baby reach.
When I set up the nursery I read all I could about safety and SIDS. I made sure there were no pillows in the crib, no blankets, no toys and no windows nearby. However, I thought that it was odd that crib bumpers seemed to be deemed safe. It seems to me that they are just another suffocation hazard that should be kept from children. My girls did not have bumpers on their cribs. We had no instances of them getting limbs stuck between railings and they slept just fine.
Today I read that the American Association of Pediatrics has declared crib bumpers to be unsafe. They have stated they increase a child's risk of SIDS. I am very pleased they have done this.
Below is a link to the AAP about crib safety and bedding.
http://www.healthychildren.org/english/safety-prevention/at-home/Pages/Choosing-a-Crib.aspx
When I set up the nursery I read all I could about safety and SIDS. I made sure there were no pillows in the crib, no blankets, no toys and no windows nearby. However, I thought that it was odd that crib bumpers seemed to be deemed safe. It seems to me that they are just another suffocation hazard that should be kept from children. My girls did not have bumpers on their cribs. We had no instances of them getting limbs stuck between railings and they slept just fine.
Today I read that the American Association of Pediatrics has declared crib bumpers to be unsafe. They have stated they increase a child's risk of SIDS. I am very pleased they have done this.
Below is a link to the AAP about crib safety and bedding.
http://www.healthychildren.org/english/safety-prevention/at-home/Pages/Choosing-a-Crib.aspx
Play Time
While Charles and I were slowly drinking our morning cup of coffee today, Nicole informed us she had other plans. She brought our shoes to us and then tried putting on her own shoes. After we all had shoes on, she tried to open the front door. Obviously she wanted an outing.
After finishing breakfast, we all piled in the car and went to the neighborhood park. The nice part of living in the desert is you can spend a lot of the year outdoors. It is the middle of October and in the mid 80's here.
Both girls ran for the slides when we arrived. They recently discovered the joys of sliding.
After a bout of sliding, Nadia decided to examine the local flora. She discovered that some bushes have bees flying around them.
The park is fairly large and has lots of grass. After the bees the girls decided to run around the grass. This was tons of fun until it was time to water the grass. Nadia had a very stern talk with one of the sprinklers.
After finishing breakfast, we all piled in the car and went to the neighborhood park. The nice part of living in the desert is you can spend a lot of the year outdoors. It is the middle of October and in the mid 80's here.
Both girls ran for the slides when we arrived. They recently discovered the joys of sliding.
After a bout of sliding, Nadia decided to examine the local flora. She discovered that some bushes have bees flying around them. 
The park is fairly large and has lots of grass. After the bees the girls decided to run around the grass. This was tons of fun until it was time to water the grass. Nadia had a very stern talk with one of the sprinklers. Monday, October 17, 2011
Adventures in Potty Training, Pt 1
There comes a day in every little girls life where she needs to learn the important step of using the big girl potty. Today is the day for Nadia and Nicole.
Nadia and Nicole have been showing signs of being ready for potty training for quite awhile. Every family member has told me I need to start potty training them. The thing no one seems to remember is I am the mother of twins. All attempts that have been made to potty train my girls have ended in bare-bottomed babies fighting over their potty chair (yes we do have two). As funny as it sounds, it is not very fun to clean up.
Charles has decided to use the two weeks of vacation time from work that he has been accumulating all year. This means I have a helper for the next two week. There will never be a more perfect time to tackle this task.
So far there have been no successes. There have been some close calls and more importantly, the girls are seeming to get the idea of what they should be doing. With any luck this process will proceed quickly and my girls will be one step closer to asking for the car keys.
Nadia and Nicole have been showing signs of being ready for potty training for quite awhile. Every family member has told me I need to start potty training them. The thing no one seems to remember is I am the mother of twins. All attempts that have been made to potty train my girls have ended in bare-bottomed babies fighting over their potty chair (yes we do have two). As funny as it sounds, it is not very fun to clean up.
Charles has decided to use the two weeks of vacation time from work that he has been accumulating all year. This means I have a helper for the next two week. There will never be a more perfect time to tackle this task.
So far there have been no successes. There have been some close calls and more importantly, the girls are seeming to get the idea of what they should be doing. With any luck this process will proceed quickly and my girls will be one step closer to asking for the car keys.
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Holidays
I have never been one for holidays. I never enjoyed looking at
Christmas lights, I detested Halloween (my birthday is right before) and
Thanksgiving seemed to be a reason to eat a lot. I would celebrate
with my family and friends, but I was never really in the spirit.
Nadia and Nicole changed all that for me. Last year was their first holiday season. They were 7 months old for Halloween and didn't think very much of the adorable costumes I forced them to sit still in.
Thanksgiving passed very much the same way. Their Great Uncle and Aunt visited from China, we had the traditional dinner, and Nadia and Nicole didn't care.
All that changed with Christmas. I decorated a small tree and hung some garland on one of our fish tanks. The girls loved the lights and really loved ripping open packages.
Now that the holiday season is here again and my girls are a year older, I find myself excited about decorating for them. I have hung a small amount of spider webbing and placed some glow in the dark rats and spiders around. My fish tank has been decorated for the season.
I cannot wait to finish Halloween decorating and decorating for the other holidays. I hope my girls find wonder and joy in the holidays.
Nadia and Nicole changed all that for me. Last year was their first holiday season. They were 7 months old for Halloween and didn't think very much of the adorable costumes I forced them to sit still in.
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| Nadia the tiger, Nicole the monkey |
Thanksgiving passed very much the same way. Their Great Uncle and Aunt visited from China, we had the traditional dinner, and Nadia and Nicole didn't care.
All that changed with Christmas. I decorated a small tree and hung some garland on one of our fish tanks. The girls loved the lights and really loved ripping open packages.
Now that the holiday season is here again and my girls are a year older, I find myself excited about decorating for them. I have hung a small amount of spider webbing and placed some glow in the dark rats and spiders around. My fish tank has been decorated for the season.
I cannot wait to finish Halloween decorating and decorating for the other holidays. I hope my girls find wonder and joy in the holidays.
Aspiring Parrotheads
One of the nice things about living in Las Vegas is all the fun things to see and do. Yesterday was the grand opening of the Margaritaville Casino at the Flamingo. While the event was a bit crowded, my girls rode in their kokopax carriers and had a great time.
The day started with a street fair with lots of live music, entertainers, and food. The worlds largest margarita was made to kick off the festivities. While the girls couldn't taste this, I can assure you there was booze in the blender. Afterwards we had a wonderful lunch with an old friend at the Margaritaville restaurant.
Nadia and Nicole split their first cheeseburger in paradise while dodging pirates.
Nicole danced almost the entire meal to Jimmy Buffett. We will be sure to return soon.
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| Nicole and Grandma Judy |
The day started with a street fair with lots of live music, entertainers, and food. The worlds largest margarita was made to kick off the festivities. While the girls couldn't taste this, I can assure you there was booze in the blender. Afterwards we had a wonderful lunch with an old friend at the Margaritaville restaurant.
Nadia and Nicole split their first cheeseburger in paradise while dodging pirates.
Nicole danced almost the entire meal to Jimmy Buffett. We will be sure to return soon.
Friday, October 14, 2011
Night Terrors
Around 1am this morning Charles and I were woken up by Nicole screaming. A child crying in the middle of the night is bad enough, however, when you know there is nothing you can do to comfort them it is even worse.
Nicole was about 3 months old when she first started waking up in the night screaming. She would cry, hit us, and scream inconsolably for about 20 minutes. Nothing seemed to calm her, then just as fast as it started it would end and she acted like nothing had happened.
Her pediatrician stated these episodes were night terrors and were a sleep disorder. I immediately started researching the topic. Night Terrors are different from a normal nightmare. The child cannot wake up from the terror. All our attempts to console her were making no difference because she was sound asleep. Research states that children have no recollection of the night terror the next day, which is a blessing because they appear to be very traumatizing.
While there is no cure for the night terrors, there does seem to be ways to control them. Consistent sleep schedules work very effectively with Nicole. If she misses a nap or stays up late, we can pretty much guarantee she will have one either that night or the next. In more severe cases, parents have reported that waking their child shortly after they fall asleep can interrupt their sleep pattern enough to stop the night terror from happening.
Keeping Nicole's sleep schedule consistent helps alleviate the amount of night terrors she has, but does not completely stop them. When she is sleeping well she has about 1 night terror a month, compared to the 2 to 3 a week she was having. When they do occur, all we can do for her is hold her and be there for her when she wakes up.
For more information:
http://www.nightterrors.org
/http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000809.htm
Nicole was about 3 months old when she first started waking up in the night screaming. She would cry, hit us, and scream inconsolably for about 20 minutes. Nothing seemed to calm her, then just as fast as it started it would end and she acted like nothing had happened.
Her pediatrician stated these episodes were night terrors and were a sleep disorder. I immediately started researching the topic. Night Terrors are different from a normal nightmare. The child cannot wake up from the terror. All our attempts to console her were making no difference because she was sound asleep. Research states that children have no recollection of the night terror the next day, which is a blessing because they appear to be very traumatizing.
While there is no cure for the night terrors, there does seem to be ways to control them. Consistent sleep schedules work very effectively with Nicole. If she misses a nap or stays up late, we can pretty much guarantee she will have one either that night or the next. In more severe cases, parents have reported that waking their child shortly after they fall asleep can interrupt their sleep pattern enough to stop the night terror from happening.
Keeping Nicole's sleep schedule consistent helps alleviate the amount of night terrors she has, but does not completely stop them. When she is sleeping well she has about 1 night terror a month, compared to the 2 to 3 a week she was having. When they do occur, all we can do for her is hold her and be there for her when she wakes up.
For more information:
http://www.nightterrors.org
/http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000809.htm
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Kokopax
One of the first items I received as a gift when I had my twins was two Kokopax backpack carriers. Unfortunately I was unable to use the carriers until my girls were about six months old, for safety reasons kids need to be able to sit upright unsupported before using backpack carriers. However, since this time the carriers have become indispensable.
The carriers are lightweight, under 3 pounds, and made of durable, washable fabric over an aluminum frame. I was worried at first that the girls would pull hair and ears because they were at head level, however, they seem to love being able to see what I am seeing and they leave my hair and ears alone.
We love to go hiking and these packs are sturdy enough to take on day hikes, yet easy enough to use while doing housework or going shopping. During long outings, the girls often fall asleep in the carriers and the sides of the carrier are padded so my girls are nice and comfortable.
www.kokopax.com
Our Kokopax Carriers were such a success, when a friend had a baby I knew she had to have one. Her daughter is almost old enough to ride in her carrier and updates will follow.
The carriers are lightweight, under 3 pounds, and made of durable, washable fabric over an aluminum frame. I was worried at first that the girls would pull hair and ears because they were at head level, however, they seem to love being able to see what I am seeing and they leave my hair and ears alone.
We love to go hiking and these packs are sturdy enough to take on day hikes, yet easy enough to use while doing housework or going shopping. During long outings, the girls often fall asleep in the carriers and the sides of the carrier are padded so my girls are nice and comfortable.
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| Nadia asleep in Kokopax carrier |
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| Grandma Judy with Nadia in Kokopax carrier at Death Valley |
Our Kokopax Carriers were such a success, when a friend had a baby I knew she had to have one. Her daughter is almost old enough to ride in her carrier and updates will follow.
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Diaper wipes, who would have thought they could do so many things. Having twins and animals means having messes, lots of messes. I have never enjoyed cleaning, I don't like cleaning products (don't like chemicals around the kids or critters, and hate the price), and have always been frustrated that I didn't have the right product to get things out. Almost all of that changed when I discovered diaper wipes.
It happened shortly after Nadia and Nicole were born. Spit up formula is horrible to get out of clothes, bedding, carpet, anything. I heard that diaper wipes were great at cleaning up formula so I tried it, and VOILA! formula came right out. That got me thinking...what else could diaper wipes do.
I soon discovered that diaper wipes are the magic cleaner. Charles and I are clumsy people and often spill things. Coffee, grape juice, and wine in carpets are no match for a diaper wipe or two. Car grease on your hands? Try a diaper wipe, they will take it right off. No dust bunny can hide from a diaper wipe. Charles even fixed the suction on our aging vacuum cleaner with a diaper wipe.
We shop a lot at a large chain warehouse store, where I buy my diaper wipes at an average price of $0.02 per wipe.
It happened shortly after Nadia and Nicole were born. Spit up formula is horrible to get out of clothes, bedding, carpet, anything. I heard that diaper wipes were great at cleaning up formula so I tried it, and VOILA! formula came right out. That got me thinking...what else could diaper wipes do.
I soon discovered that diaper wipes are the magic cleaner. Charles and I are clumsy people and often spill things. Coffee, grape juice, and wine in carpets are no match for a diaper wipe or two. Car grease on your hands? Try a diaper wipe, they will take it right off. No dust bunny can hide from a diaper wipe. Charles even fixed the suction on our aging vacuum cleaner with a diaper wipe.
We shop a lot at a large chain warehouse store, where I buy my diaper wipes at an average price of $0.02 per wipe.
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Homeward Bound
I am a lover of all animals and believe that animals improve peoples lives. We started the day Nadia and Nicole were born teaching them a love and respect for animals.
In addition to our own animals, we strongly believe in animal rescue. While my schedule does not permit me to volunteer at any shelters or organizations, our family does foster kittens and cats for a local cat rescue, Homeward Bound.
www.homewardboundcats.org
www.facebook.com/HomewardBoundCatAdoptions
We are currently fostering four 6 week old kittens.
Fostering involves providing love and shelter for cats until they are old enough to be adopted. Many people wrongly assume there are many people who are fostering so they won't be needed, however, there is always a lack of foster parents. Another misconception is that it will be hard to return the cats when it is time for them to find their forever homes. The joy that comes from a kitty finding their forever family outdoes any heartache that comes from returning the kitties.
Nadia and Nicole love the kittens we foster. They have learned to become gentle and play nicely with them. Since they became old enough to interact with the kittens, Nadia and Nicole have become more careful in all their activities. They have learned to respect the animals boundaries, as well as becoming more respectful of peoples boundaries.
Fostering has been a win win situation for us. I highly urge everyone who is able to volunteer in any capacity with an organization. The benefits are more than can be counted.
In addition to our own animals, we strongly believe in animal rescue. While my schedule does not permit me to volunteer at any shelters or organizations, our family does foster kittens and cats for a local cat rescue, Homeward Bound.
www.homewardboundcats.org
www.facebook.com/HomewardBoundCatAdoptions
We are currently fostering four 6 week old kittens.
Nadia and Nicole love the kittens we foster. They have learned to become gentle and play nicely with them. Since they became old enough to interact with the kittens, Nadia and Nicole have become more careful in all their activities. They have learned to respect the animals boundaries, as well as becoming more respectful of peoples boundaries.
Fostering has been a win win situation for us. I highly urge everyone who is able to volunteer in any capacity with an organization. The benefits are more than can be counted.
Nadia and Nicole
Our family is fairly widespread. Three Grandparents live in Las Vegas NV (Judy, Gary and Qing Qing) and two in Seattle, WA (Bob and Kat). There are four Great-Grandmother's still living, one in Gig Harbor WA (Marilyn), one in Fort Collins CO (Bette), one in Princeton NJ (Ruth), and one in China (Chong Rong). Nadia and Nicole also have three uncles, Fong Fong in Las Vegas, Shawn in Seattle and Chris in Montreal Canada.
Their Dad, Charles, is a 26 years old upper manager for a large retail pet company. He attended the University of Washington and obtained degrees in German and Political Science. He is passionate about his family, photography, and animals.
Since becoming a mother of twins, my life has changed drastically. I quit my job to become a full-time stay at home Mom. This has put some financial strain on our family, however we feel it is important for our children to have a parent at home. The purpose of this blog is to share the knowledge I have accumulated, review items, and connect with other parents.
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